First Step

There are always many sides to a matter. To see it as a good thing, a bad one, a happy one, or an upsetting one, its in our hands to decide how we wanna see it, and how we want to feel about it.

I'm happy that, perhaps i've succeeded in learning to let go, taking baby steps. Why not ask ourselves when something happen: why must we pick up only the bad and negative side towards a matter, but not the good and positive side of it?

We're individual of our own, we make our own choice in life. No doubt there needs to have sincere and honest communication, to have understanding, but that doesnt mean that one should affect another's decision in life. As long as its not a bad thing, why not just let go... just like babies learn to take their first step out, you cant always hold on to them, not letting them fall. Babies wont learn to walk that way. Only by falling, one learns to pick up oneself, and learn to walk, starting with baby steps. Eventually, one learns to walk faster, then run.

爱，不是要掌控对方的一切。
爱，是要支持对方，
无论决定是好是坏，都知道有对方的支持。

爱，不是终身的保护，
要跌倒，才懂得自己爬起来，
再学会走。

放下面子，放下高昂的尊严，
不是你所说的都是对的，
别人也不一定错。

爱，不是形影不离，
爱，是互相扶持，互相尊重，互相关怀，互相礼让。

放下一切，拥有开心，与自由。